So you asked for some advice annon and you shall receive.
What does one do when the people you thought were your friends/ people you cared about decide to tell you to fuck yourself and bail.
After carefully analyzing your situation, trying to see it from both perspectives, you’ve noticed that you weren’t in the wrong and the people around you suck. What to do next?
First off: Do not in any way, shape, or form believe that you are completely alone.
- I’m more empathetic to strangers than to shitty people I already know. Therefore, if you have a problem, I’ll most likely be super sympathetic and want to help you out. Hence what this post is all about.
- You’ll learn as you grow up that your priorities and the people you make your priority will constantly change. I sometimes look back on my younger years and laugh at how petty and childish I was and only a small amount of people that were important to me in my past have made it to my future.
I have to stress this point. Make sure you weren’t the one that messed up. The hardest thing one can do is try to see situations from a different perspective without bias. Otherwise,
Second: I assure you, you are better off.
- If people that you thought were really important to you have turned your back on you, they shouldn’t be important to you anymore. If they were the ones that messed up they will eventually come to that realization, but for the time being there is no reason to continuously try to fix things if it’s going nowhere.
When growing up you quickly learn that at any minute someone you considered your best friend can turn into your mortal enemy. This has happened to me a countless number of times. What I’ve learned from all of this experience is that absolutely no one should have the power to make you feel inferior to them. No matter how bad it seems I promise you you’ll get out of the situation soon. Be careful who you trust. And remember, it’s better to be alone than in terrible company.
Hope that helped
Love Life. Love Love.
Anonymous
